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A-Z, W is for Wonder

To whomever suggested Wonder - Thank You!  ‘Wonder’ has been bobbing in my mind like a frog in a pond.

However, I have FOUR suggestions from you guys for X but I do not want to write four X essays. These are the suggestions:

1.) X signature substitution

2.) xylophone on a string pulled by a toddler

3.) xenophobia

4.) Xmas. 

If you have an opinion respond with the one you would like me to attempt. I will choose whichever X gets the most comments.

There will be no gerrymandering in this election.

If you live in Wisconsin, are you aware R’s in the state legislature are scheming to silence our newly elected Judge Janet Protasiewicz? They are strategizing to block her opinions because she will vote towards fair maps so R’s will lose their absolute lock on our state government.

What’s crazy is that a lot of Wisconsin IS Republican. Allowing Fair Maps doesn’t guarantee anything other than that our votes will all count equally. Also, without her voice Wisconsin women will not regain their rights to autonomy over their own bodies. This is all so craven and so nuts.

How to contact your WI reps: https://legis.wisconsin.gov/  Do it!

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What we are doing here today is wondering about wonder. Wonder is what we do when we are so surprised by a moment or a question or a problem that we forget ourselves in order to pay attention to what’s outside ourselves.

On Monday evening Len and I pulled out of the parking structure at Froedtert Medical Center to a sky that was saffron silk behind rolling dark clouds. We drove out of the congestion of that huge urban medical complex into a wonder of a sunset.  

The day had been tense. In the previous week our brother-in-law noticed he didn’t feel swell. He works as a researcher (he calls himself a mouse wrangler) at that same medical complex. So, what did he do when he felt weirdly tired? He waited a couple days to see if would go away. Well, on Monday he had a big surgery and here we are, a couple days later and he is doing very well. He has rehab steps ahead of him as he is fully aware of since he has actually, personally, done surgeries on mice.

It’s crazy to embrace that if we were of our parents’ generation and had been their friends instead of their kids, many of us wouldn’t be here at all. Len wouldn’t. I wouldn’t. Brother-in-law sure wouldn’t. Medical care technology has changed THAT much THIS fast.

It is a Wonder.

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Wonder is one of those words we tend to relegate to grand vistas or children. Have you been to the Grand Canyon? Do you remember the first time you came upon it? You knew it was going to be cool because you’ve seen the photos. But then you were walking from your camping site along a path that led to the canyon, and suddenly there it was. You stopped in your tracks and were speechless at the immensity.

And then if you are us you take a photo to put on your dresser for the next forty years because of the wonder of that moment you shared. And yes, Len did bring a cup of coffee on that walk. Oh look, so did I!

Len and MB at the Grand Canyon

Grand vistas. Magnificent art in beautiful places. Kids stopping to look at things that fascinate them. (“Mom! Mom! I found this dead bird on the sidewalk!”) Babies watching youngsters move on their own legs. Youngsters watching teenagers be cool. Teenagers watching each other.

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Where is our wonder now? Did we use it up? Is it only for young humans and people who travel? Where is wonder on a Wednesday when we are at work, or home wiping the counters, or watching TV with our cats and dogs almost on our laps?

I think wonder is the door that is always next to us. Mostly we are busy so I’m not giving us grief for the ordinary stuff we do to get through our days.

But sometimes when we are too slow, cranky, or uninspired, we can open that wonder door. It’s right next to us. Just stop in our tracks, take ourselves out of our monkey brains and into the moment we are in.

We are spinning like tops on the axis of the earth at 735 MPH. Earth is zipping around the sun at 67,000 MPH.  https://www.thoughtco.com/speed-of-the-earth-1435093 Is this not just bizarre enough to make us wonder what’s going on - and how we lucky we are to even be here in our short fraught lives?

If we pay attention to where we are, and what’s around us, and who is next to us, and what’s actually going on – the wonder is right here. Always.

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