Mary Beth Writes

Thinking Outside the Box: 

Len once told me this WWII story. The first generation of bomber raids from England to Germany resulted in a terrifying number of bomber planes being shot down. Experts carefully examined the returning planes to create detailed reports of the bullet holes as they tried to understand how to reinforce the planes to make them safer.

Then someone consulted Abraham Wald, a Hungarian-Jewish statistician who had fled Nazi-occupied Austria and who was working in New York to help the war effort. Wald pointed out that the experts had only looked at bombers who’d returned.

The planes that made it back had survived the bullet holes that experts had so carefully mapped and calibrated. The luck of the returning planes resided not in where they had been struck – but in where they had NOT been struck.

The way to make the bomber planes less vulnerable was to reinforce parts of the plane that were NOT struck in the planes that made it back. When they did that, bombers became more resilient and successful.

Read more here: When data gives the wrong solution — TREVOR BRAGDON

If Racism and Climate Crisis are humanity’s most dangerous challenges right now; Covid following on the heels of both of these … what do we do and where do we act?

If we were a discussion group (and maybe we are?) I would ask this.

What has worked to combat political idiocy in the near and far past?

What IS working right now, in your opinion?

What choices have you made and/or groups have you joined that have enabled you to be part of something big and good and just?

What’s strong? What’s working?

Speaking of what’s working - last night we watched Kiss the Ground. .

Watch it. It shows how we can do more than just prevent things from getting worse, but how we can return carbon back into our earth where we need it. The movie is it not simplistic. It is clear.

Watch it. (Netflix)

This Sunday the service of my Unitarian Universalist congregation will be a little unusual. Years ago, I wrote a short story about two guys and one donkey and what happens when the donkey, named Miles, says one thing. Jennifer Beiriger and I will read the story throughout the service. Meg Whaley sings some beautiful songs. If you would like to join in virtually, this is the link to our website. On Sunday morning about 9AM, a link should appear to take you into the virtual service.

Hope this works.



I really don’t want to quote an old white guy but it’s too good: the secret of change is to focus all of your energy not on fighting the old but building the new (Socrates)
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I like this.

I teared up. I learned so much. And I can do more.... Thanks for the recommendation, I will pass it on. Can't wait to tune in Sunday.

You always give me things to think about. Thank you. Will watch your movie suggestion. Have a good weekend. Patricia
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Thank you! We are off to Chicago to spend the afternoon with our daughters and granddaughter. It will be a very fine day, indeed.

I think the thing I've been learning most from activists and in my own life is that we're playing the long game. White supremacy tends toward a sense of urgency--being busy is a way we feel useful because we have been taught to do things first and think later. There's balance. Yes, it's urgent. Also, things are changing. These things are not mutually exclusive. I don't know if this makes sense? I'm still learning and processing. So thanks for letting me share!

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Waukesha's Holiday Parade & Us

This photo is of Milwaukee's 'Dancing Grannies'. Some of them were killed and hurt yesterday. 


Coming & Going


And just like that, my website is back.

Behind every website are a zillion lines of code. If you want to see what that looks like behind a page you are perusing – do this: On a computer (not on a phone) right click on any segment of a website. A box will open, click on Inspect and that will show you the code being used in that part of that website. You can’t mess with it, but you can see it.

...and we’re home …


Many of you sent emails and notes and we read every single one. Thank you! We loved the photos of where you live and what you are seeing in your world … and Neal, that fish that you caught is BIG!

A very small update on the very big upheaval In Len’s and my life


We are doing pretty well. Len has 46 staples in his head – the rehab admitting person counted them. Not sure if I wanted to know, but now I do.

His mind, brain, coordination, balance, and motor movements all seem to be exactly the way they always were. Twice he has politely helped the professional therapists who are helping him – unscramble some confusing things on their computers.  

I will be away for a while

Last Tuesday Len went for a big bike ride in the morning. He came home, did some chores, took a shower, ate lunch, laid down for a nap and when he got up he fell on his head.  His nose rivals a boxer's nose after a bad night.


What are you doing November 3-6 and/or November 11-13?

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