Mary Beth Writes

We hiked on Sunday.

1/11/2022

How was your weekend?

Have you noticed that with this omicron iteration of covid isolation – if one is not an employee - it’s tricky to tell what is a weekend and what is not? I think about what my kids might be doing and maybe we call them and that is the main way weekends are different from weeks. By what other people are doing.

My daughter, son-in-law, and their little kids are about a week into Covid and are doing very well, which is amazing because they have been inside their house all this time. For our part, Len and I get to play dollhouse again with the 5-year-old. By late afternoon it’s good for everyone in her house if she goes to a corner of the living room by herself to hang out with us.

Sunday was hilarious. She asked for the story of Snow White. Sure, we can do that. I picked out her favorite little girl doll to be Snow White. Picked out another one to be the Mean Queen.

I asked who else we needed. She said woodland bears (this kid has vocabulary). We have bears.

Story launched.

Snow White is loved poorly by the Mean Queen. Mean Queen’s mirror says Snow White is the most wonderful in the land. Mean Queen sends her into the forest. Little animals find her and take her to a cottage in the forest i.e., the dollhouse on the dining room table. Everything inside the woodland cottage is a mess, so the woodland animals help Snow White clean it up. Then they have snacks. Then they are tired so they all go upstairs and find the various beds and lay down.

The Three Bears come home. Someone has been eating their snacks. Someone has been using their potty and knocked it over (Boy, was our kid laughing). Then they find Snow White and her friends piled up in their beds.

At which point I understand that somewhere along the way I switched from Snow White to The Three Bears and it is working. Grandkid is scolding. “No, Grandma, not like that!”

My daughter came into the living room to see what was going on. The child formerly known as grumpy is now falling over and giggling. So are Grandma and Grandpa.

So that’s how Quarantine is going. It’s not the story we planned for, but it is a story.

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Here’s a curious thing. My daughter, son-in-law, and the 3-year-old all tested positive and are coming through Covid. The 5-year-old has not tested positive, though she is totally right there, unmasked, in her home. She received her second vaccination two days before the rest of them tested positive. (They’ve done both PCR and Antibody tests.) Did the incredibly fresh vaccine protect her from Omicron? This sounds great but likely means their daycare will ask her to quarantine an extra week because she’s exposed.

It's always something.

FYI: In case you have A-Fib or you take fish oil supplements, here’s a weird thing I read this morning. Read here. 

“Make an Effort”

I can hear my mom talking with her friends. Someone they know, most likely another woman, is suffering through a hard time. Things are going poorly. Loss is happening. It’s going to be hard for a while.

But the woman they are discussing is enduring. She is still going to work, keeping up with her contacts, cleaning her house, organizing what she can against the chaos that is out there. She is using what energy she has to keep her life going in a good and meaningful way.

My mom and her friends say to each other, “She is making an effort. It’s hard right now but you can see her making an effort.”

Parts of our lives are not easy right now. Loss is happening. We can’t make gold from this dross.

But I like to think we can make an effort.

 

 

 

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Leonard's picture

Mary Beth is absolutely brilliant at dollhouse. When the bears and the Bad Guys and the Princesses start talking to one another, the rest of the world melts away from her and she disappears into the dollhouse. For example, when the aforementioned Snow White and the Three Bears incident was in progress, I was standing right there whispering "there are no bears in Snow White." and there was absolutely no impact. Sometimes I'm afraid that she won't come out of the dollhouse, and she'll live there, eating the cake and chocolate chip cookies until the school teacher finds a way to return her to mee.
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Just saw this and I'm laughing so hard I'm crying.

When my grown sons were young, we read together every night before bed. As they got older and we graduated to chapter books, they often begged for "one more chapter". More often than not, I agreed; and they would gleefully say, "Yes! We always get you into it!" I wanted the next chapter as much as they did. It's easy to slide into that "zone" when you don't want the magic to end.
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Yes yes yes to this. My favorite memories of raising the kids are reading to them every night. I was always up for one more chapter. I felt a little sad when they learned to read well and wanted to read on their own because they could go faster.

Love the entire story and Lens reply. You guys are awesome Grandparents.

You forgot the part about the hair on my chinny, chin, chin
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Next story. Little Red Riding Hood and the wolf with the chinny chin chin?

Just heard that my husband's sister's family got Covid after being exposed over the holidays. There are 5 of them. 3 got it. The two who didn't were an adult who'd just been boosted and a 10 YO who'd just had his second shot. I think there's something to this Science! LOL
Mary Beth's picture

I'm sending your comment to my daughter!

Hope your daughter's family is back to health soon. Thank you for the info about the possible connection with fish oil to Afib. I took fish oil for many years in my 40s and early 50s due to concern about vascular issues on my mother's side. I was diagnosed with Afib at age 53 but can't remember if it was before or after I stopped taking the fish oil. Either way, I won't be taking it again after reading this. My cardiologist believes it was caffeine overconsumption that started it. I still have to take a beta blocker every day but it's way better than having a stroke. No more caffeine either. Another study I have heard of connected over exercising with Afib. Interesting in that my husband and I both have Afib and we were both " on foot" mail carriers with routes about 10 miles each, 5 to 6 days a week.
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That's really interesting about the exercise and AFib connection. The day Len had his huge episode - he had ridden his bike 10 miles, though that was/is normal for him.

Love the dollhouse story! A few years ago one of my granddaughters told her dad that Grandma Judy is the best at playing dollhouse! We made up crazy scenarios and used lots of props from things we found in the cupboards and toyboxes. The dollhouse has been passed along to one of her younger cousins now, and Carlina has moved on to searching for Sasquatch, drawing, baking, reading and basketball. Hope she doesn't forget our fun times with the dollhouse, I know I won't!
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I would love to play dollhouse with you. Hmm. maybe we should FaceTime with each other...

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Happy Birthday to Len

11/30/2022 

Today is Len’s birthday. I told him this morning I might write about him but I would let him read whatever I said first. He said not to run it past him, he’d like the surprise of reading it when you all do. Let’s see what I come up with.

1. This is cute. Len was born in Chicago’s Passavant Memorial Hospital which was the grandparent hospital to Northwestern’s Prentice Women’s Hospital - where two of our grandkids were born.

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The photo is not by Len or me, its from I Love Canada on FB. I've seen a sky like that just once. 

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The People You Keep by Allison Larkin

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Yes, it’s been 979 days since Friday the 13th, March 2020, when everything changed.

Last Saturday one of our kids visited for several hours with their kids. It was fun though our kid looked tired. They said they’d taken a Covid test that morning and it was negative. They figured it was the wine and rich foods they’d shared the evening before with friends at the end of a very busy week.

Next Day - What Are You Seeing?

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It was a late night last night, wasn’t it? Len worked at a polling place 6:30 AM until 10:30 PM. He said the actual experience is a lot like working retail (which he has not done since he was 22). Stand up most of the time, pleasantly say the same thing over and over. Wonder if lunch is soon.  

Professional reporters and pundits are talking a lot about “what just happened”, but heck, we are noticing interesting things, too.  Let’s talk about what We The People saw and heard and are watching now.

Here are some things catching my attention.

Election Day

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So many times I’ve thought things were going to be okay, and then they weren’t. My dad had that heart attack and the kid who was MB back then told herself to not overthink the drama because things always turn out more or less okay. Then the next day he died.

We lost a pregnancy far enough along that we had a name picked out and a crib in which to put that child. For a week I had all the misery and cramps that go with miscarrying and I still thought somehow it was going to work out okay.

That Beep-Beep-Beeping Moment.

In spring Len got a $100 traffic ticket when he turned right at a corner we’ve been turning right at for seven years. However, construction had started and there were orange barrels and cones everywhere – plus a small sign NOT facing the street Len was on, telling drivers to not turn there.

Len went back later that day and took photos. Len called the city to mention that if they posted a sign that actually faced the traffic, the city could save the cost of the cop parked there ticketing drivers.

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