Mary Beth Writes

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Chicken? Cheep, Cheep, Cheap!

 You may have noticed I haven’t posted in a while. There’s been a lot going on – including this pleasure.  Len and I went to Chicago for several days to care for our granddaughter while our daughter and son-in-law went out of town.

They live in a condo which is a 3rd floor walk-up. Grandpa Len carried our grand-toddler up and down those 50 steps; Grandma Me hauled the stroller and backpack.  Boy, three flights is a lot of flights! I did not lose any weight, but my too-tight jeans that I accidentally put on this morning fit.  I guess that means one could possibly become smaller, not by cutting delicious food, but by adding on a 3rd floor walk-up.

So here are my frugality-values take-away from four days and three nights in Chicago. We did not completely spend money like drunken 18th century pirates on leave in a rum port – even though city life often feels like that.

Now that its Cubs season (Cubs field is 8 blocks north) Hotel Versey is no longer $60/night. But it was still less than those beige person-garages along the interstate. If you like city adventures, this is a good place.  When you walk out of the place you are at Clark and Diversy – which if you ask me is one of the coolest corners on earth. For instance; SO MANY types of food are within walking distance. Including Chicago hot dogs, pizza so good you will weep just to sniff it as you amble past, and Kurdish dining at Gundi’s just up Clark. FYI: Gundi’s is expensive. Just order a main dish and make sure it is lamb, chicken, or duck.  Savor with your eyes closed and then, a month later, find a similar recipe online and try to recreate it.  We did. Totally worth an investment in You Only Live Once.  (We ate at Gundi’s on a previous visit to Chicago, not this last time when we were on 24/7 baby guard duty.)

Also Lake Michigan is 4 blocks to the east, Lincoln Park (hikes, paths, museums, the zoo) is close, and people watching is World Class.

By staying only one night in a hotel (in order to start grand-parenting at 8AM) and buying groceries to eat in one night, ordering a pizza the next, and a few fast lunches heavy on French fries for our munchkin – we managed to “only” spend about $200 altogether for 4 days in the city.

This was partially achieved because our younger daughter bought tacos for us when we first arrived in the city on Wednesday. Man, you know your kids are adults when the “baby” pops for your lunch.  

In case you are ever looking for the kind of local Chicago taco place where women probation officers hang out at lunch - https://www.elmetrocantina.com/elmetrohome   I ordered a “Coffee-chata” which might change the trajectory of my life for the better. Wow that was good! When I figure out how to make it, I will let you know.

Then Wednesday evening friends treated us to Thai take-out in their (3rd floor walk-up, of course) beautiful apartment. That was a reunion I will never forget; I hadn’t spent time with them since 1977. There was some catching up to do. 

So I guess the take-away on visiting a major city not too expensively is: get other people to treat you to meals, take care of a baby in her own house, drink very little alcohol (because you are watching the baby or you are sleeping to get enough strength to watch the baby next time she wakes up.)

We took her to the Lincoln Park Zoo twice: it’s free although parking is $20-35 per day. We took the bus which was free (for us) because our daughter let us use her bus pass. She ends up paying, but she seemed pretty happy to do that in exchange for a few days away from her beloved little one. (My daughter texted the second day away that she was a little bored. I don’t think she’s been bored in ten years; that was probably an adventure for her.)

We also walked to three playgrounds, bought small bunny shaped crackers at a Target, and read so many small books I can’t even … 

Here are some ways OTHER people have saved money lately, all of which I read at other frugal websites and all of which charmed me.

  • Instead of boarding their cat, when they needed the cat out of the house for a bit– a middle-aged couple took the cat to stay with their college kids in those kids’ apartments. The cat apparently had a good time hanging out a few weeks with its kids. 
  • Feeding one’s kids until they get big enough to be helpful. This makes me laugh.  As if bearing and raising children is a frugal way to get the piano moved from one side of the living room to the other.
  • This seems quite helpful:  “Gave dog Benadryl and washed her foot with baking soda paste after she was stung by a bee rather than going to emergency vet. Stayed home to watch her carefully just in case she needed a vet.”
  • Someone wanted new slipcovers for patio furniture. No-Sew DIY Slipcover Cushion Tutorial on YouTube. Canvas drop cloth. A pack of iron-on tape. Several hours of work. Finish this off with weatherproofing spray.  
  • How to deal with backyard animals that eat the garden vegetables. "Well, the animal needs to live, too, and she can’t go to a store to buy carrots like I can. So I decided she wasn’t a pest, but free entertainment for me and my grandkids."

 

 Have a good evening.

I miss my granddaughter. 

(I have a new phone and a new computer and tonight I couldn't get my Chicago photos to move from there to there to here. Will figure this out soon.)

Comments

I’ve already told you - ur time away from home sounds lovely. Spending time with grown up children and ur grand baby is some of the best ! The to tight jeans fitting was a bonus.

Glad you got to spend lots of time with your granddaughter and didn't spend an arm and leg to do it.

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The Arrows of Yore

I have a weird dark closet in the back of my soul. In it are critical things people have said to me in my life. I rarely consciously think about those old cuts and criticisms, but they are tucked in back there and sometimes I remember them uneasily.

Here are some of my particular arrows of yore:

“Can’t you do anything with her hair, Dorothy?” Dorothy was my mom. My dad liked his daughters’ hair to be curly and orderly, mine was straight and flyaway. I think I was in my 40’s before I realized OMG I do not have “problem hair”… whatever the hell that is.

Make Persimmon Cookies; Don’t make a Persimmon Life.

We are new subscribers to “Imperfect Produce” which is a service that delivers imperfect (duh) but safe and flavorful veggies and fruit to your house. This helps to keep “imperfect” produce from being wasted. (https://www.imperfectproduce.com/  I don’t get kickbacks from them.)

We are open-minded about trying new things to eat so when they included a pomegranate – cool. I enjoyed pomegranate, raisin, and walnut oatmeal I invented for myself.

Buy Angry

Frugality is a tool and a weapon. You can use it to be powerful.

What?

Frugality and Privacy

 “If you aren’t paying for the product, you are the product.”

When one of our kids was 8-years old, Len thought it would be fun to let that kid drive his car. I swear - though I doubt you will believe me - no drinking was involved. Len just really believes in our kids and sometimes this turns into bigger adventures than one would expect.

Did I mention the car was in the garage so it needed to be backed out? Also, the child in question was too short to adequately reach the pedals.

Mindful Chickens – Up North Weekend Edition 9/24/18

Mindful Chickens are (for people who don’t know why I call them this) about:

1. Being Cheap (cheap, cheep).

2. Being thoughtful about how choices affect our community and our earth.

3. Paying attention to the constant tumble of little things like bugs and crumbs, dollars and daily choices.

Several years ago our son and his wife decided that they were going to set a goal to visit every state park in Wisconsin. There are 50 state parks and they only have a few more to go; what a cool way to claim where one lives.

Mindful Chickens 9/15/18 & The Scattered Schedule of Retirement

Mindful Chickens are (for people who don’t know why I call them this) about:

ONE: Being Cheap (cheep, cheep).

TWO: Being thoughtful about how choices affect our community and our earth.

THREE: Did you know you can enter “flying chickens” as an actual searchable topic in YouTube? Did you know you can lose an hour (or more) of your life this way? It’s been quite a week over here, doing many needful and not-so-needful things – including watching chickens fly.

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