Mary Beth Writes

Other people call them “frugal things I did lately”. I call them Mindful Chickens because they are about:

1. Being Cheap (cheap, cheep).

2. Being thoughtful about how choices affect our community and our earth.

3. Paying attention to the constant tumble of dollars and choices.


  • We like “Imperfect Vegetables” which is a subscription service where one receives weekly boxes of imperfect produce that would otherwise be thrown away. The price of the produce is good, but delivery is $5. We realized we could order a larger amount every OTHER week, thus saving the $5 charge twice per month.
  • Talked a while with a friend I am getting to know better. She has, as a side hustle, run flea market sales for decades. She mentioned this interesting tidbit. “Call an auctioneer when trying to empty out your house (or someone else’s house).  Estate-sales people will look, sort, prep, and sell for weeks.  An auctioneer will come in and pack up every single thing in a few days.” I’m (MB here) assuming one might earn less money this way but the job is in and done and no one has to mess with stuff for weeks on end. Of course, kids or friends or whomever should go through the home first to take what they want before the auction company is scheduled. I didn’t know this was a choice or option.
  • Len did our taxes. (Len volunteers via AARP to do taxes for others. Check AARP and your zip code to possibly get your taxes done for free. You don’t have to be old or poor.) Len retired last year. Len did freelance work last year. I did some preaching. It wasn’t easy to predict what was going to happen with our taxes. We are relieved we are getting money back.
  • Decided to sell some knick-knacks that I’ve owned for decades, some from my parents. A figurine sold for $50. I don’t have lots of valuable stuff, but I do have some. I’d rather have a new experience than keep an old bauble.
  • I didn’t carve my Halloween pumpkin last fall. I meant to, just didn’t get around to it. I put it on a shelf in my kitchen where a few observant friends have politely (and humorously)  asked why I have a pumpkin for Christmas,for  January, for Valentine’s day. This past week I cut it, baked it, and scooped the veggie into nine 1-cup packs. They are now in the freezer for oatmeal or – pie?
  • Today we are having 50-60 mph wind gusts. The office windows rattled – I looked up to see that an exterior screen was not snug in the frame so wind was catching and flapping it. By the end of this long day it would have pulled the whole thing out and set it sailing so I opened the window pulled the screen inside. I bet I saved the cost and aggravation of obtaining a new screen.

What have you done lately to be frugal and thoughtful?


I spent the morning at the gym from nine until noon trying to keep myself limber and healthy. I take my soaps and creams and a towel and shower there, thus saving my own water bill and I get to drive home clean and not smelling of sweat.

It makes frugal sense to shower at the gym. I come home anyways. because I do not like to think about collecting soap, shampoo, cream rinse and all the rest. But you have a good point.

Franc, I know a well-to-do man who always showers at the gym. He says he does it to “ save money”. Really smart. His family may snicker but he does not care! In our house we endeavor to use up every bit of food , it makes for some interesting “ planned overs” . I bring home leftovers from church dinners, sometimes the dogs are the ones who benefit. I cannot bear to see food in the trash. Saving a bit here and there allows us to spend elsewhere or save for our dotage.

Auctioneer. We are at this point with my Moms house. That’s the exact same advice we got from her attorney. We are on vacation. So I suppose we aren’t being frugal. Although, we did go to the grocery store here and we eat our lunch in the room. Only eating out two times a day.

I'm sitting here talking with Len about feminism, sexism, and frugality. It absolutely makes sense to shower at one's gym. But if one needs shampoo, cream rinse, maybe one extra potion (I use a special soap on my eyelids) ... Then one needs deodorant, lotion for one's skin and face cream for one's face... and a hair dryer and round brush - these are all regular for me (and I seldom wear makeup), My life is simpler if I shower at home. Len will be taking his bike in to be tuned up this week. There is nearly always a good bike shop within 30-40 miles of where one lives. But I threw a bra away this morning because one strap kept falling down. There are not women's bra experts within 30-40 miles of most women. There's an essay in here somewhere.

Joyce I applaud your friends frugality. I bought a never used gym bag on Saturday at my local St. Vincent's for $4.99 that when I looked it up sells for over $50.00. I found a portable soap dish for .50... The main compartment holds my gym shoes,shorts and T-Shirts. It has Two end pockets and I keep my water bottle, lock & headphones in one and my soaps,body wash & lotions in the other. Those never leave the bag so I don't ever have to run around the house looking for them... I bought multiple's so the bathroom has the same products. The ShopKo here and in Kenosha are closing so I stocked up on those at a discount. One of the side pockets holds the a pair of new shower slippers I picked up for $1.99... As for food waste I eat the same thing until its gone, granted I only have to feed myself and I like my cooking so that helps... Ms. Maya & Ms. Seema also benefit from my cooking so it cuts down on waste. I try to shop in a way that saves on waste and I'm always looking to get the least amount of packaging with what I buy so I take those produce bags back to the store and reuse them.

But I am inspired to get some of my antiques on Etsy. I have a basement of stuff used in photoshoots that I won't use again. Just need to get it listed.

There is no "just get it listed" to this endeavor! It takes time and effort. I hadn't put anything on eBay in half a year - so I decided to JUST use my phone, nothing was going to be done if I had to take a photo, download to the laptop etc etc. It was so much less effort doing it strictly from the phone ... as everyone who sells on these virtual sites knows.

As I was walking to nowhere this morning and watching my fellow gym rats wiping down the equipment, it dawned on me that by bringing my own small towel to use for that purpose I can help to cut down on the amount of paper waist going on there...

One towel per day - adds up!

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Other people call them “frugal things I did lately”. I call them Mindful Chickens because they are about:

1. Being Cheap (cheap, cheep).

2. Being thoughtful about how choices affect our community and our earth.

3. Paying attention to the constant tumble of dollars and choices.

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